@_@快乐为本^_^

     中国近百年的文化史上，“才貌双全”一词用在林徽因身上恰如其分。她是一个才情横溢的诗人，一个入木三分的评论家，更是一个卓有成就的建筑学家。她是一个让人神魂颠倒的情人，一个让人如沐春风的朋友，更是一个可以患难与共的妻子。
　　林徽因的一生，是用真爱写成的。而今天世人所津津乐道的林徽因，也是那些充满了传奇色彩的爱。在这本爱的记录里，交织着三个出类拔萃的男人，一个是诗人徐志摩，一个是建筑大师梁思成，一个是学界泰斗金岳霖。正是这三个男人的真爱，成就了一代性情才女。她“爱思成，爱自己的家胜过一切”，又以不同方式真诚爱着父亲、徐志摩、金岳霖、朋友们。　
　　林徽因是公认的文学“才女”，然而她的存世文学作品，只是几十首诗，几篇散文，三个短篇，再加半出话剧，合在一起也不过10来万字。这些作品却几乎是篇篇珠玉，即便是只有一首《你是人间的四月天》，谁又能忽视林徽因在文学上的成就呢。她的文字，都是情感的真实体验：“生活必须体验丰富的情感，把自己变成丰富、宽大、能优容、能了解、能同情种种‘人性’，能懂得自己，不苛责自己，也不苛责旁人。不难自己以所不能，也不难别人所不能。”“人活着的意义基本是能体验情感。能体验情感还得有智慧有思想来分别了解那情感……自己的或别人的！如果再能表现你自己所体验所了解的种种在文字上……使得别人也更得点人生意义，那或许就是所有的意义了。”
　　深爱文学的林徽因没有选择诗人徐志摩，而是嫁给了学建筑的梁思成。有人不理解。但又有多少人知道，事实上是林徽因说服了她后来的丈夫梁思成也学了建筑。她选择建筑作为专业并非偶然，在她16岁随父亲林长民暂居英国时，受到一位建筑师的启示，就决心要以这个“把艺术创造与人的日常需要结合在一起的工作”为自己的终身职业。
　　建筑是林徽因和梁思成夫妻情感的根源。从1930年到1945年，他们夫妻二人共同走了中国的15个省，200多个县，考察测绘了200多处古建筑物，很多古建筑就是通过他们的考察得到了世界的认同，从此加以保护。1936年，林徽因自豪地相信自己是中国历史上第一个敢于踏上皇帝祭天宫殿屋顶的女性。1949年以后，林徽因在美术方面曾做过三件大事：第一是参与国徽设计；第二是改造传统景泰蓝；第三是参加天安门人民英雄纪念碑设计。任何一件，都足以确立她的学术地位。
　　而她更多的学术成就，不见诸文字，而是散播在那个让无数文人墨客心向往之的“太太客厅”里。20世纪30年代，林徽因住在北京东城总布胡同时，一批文坛名流常聚集在这里，一杯清茶，些许点心，谈文学，说艺术，天南地北，古今中外。林徽因是客厅里的“女主角”，而“男配角”都是顶尖高手：有政治学家张奚若、经济学家陈岱孙、逻辑学家金岳霖、物理学家周培源，更有名满天下的胡适、沈从文、叶公超、朱光潜。
　　林徽因是幸运的，她的一生都沐浴在爱里。她懂得真正的爱，她在给老友沈从文的信里说：“如同两个人透彻地了解：一句话打到你心里，使得你理智和情感全觉到一万万分满足；如同相爱：在一个时候里，你同你自身以外另一个人互相以彼此存在为极端的幸福；如同恋爱：在那时那刻，眼所见，耳所听，心所触，无所不是美丽，情感如诗歌自然地流动如花香那样不知其所以。”
　　林徽因的爱不只是儿女情长，更有民族大义。在乱世里，温文尔雅的林徽因是女中大丈夫，从来不失中国知识分子的良知和血性。她的儿子梁从诫回忆，当年一家人为躲避日本人的轰炸，跟着营造学社在李庄时，儿子问：“如果日本人打到四川，怎么办？”母亲特别平静地回答：“中国读书人不是还有一条老路吗？咱们家门口不就是扬子江吗？”当时林徽因肺病复发，连药品都买不起，经常发烧，但她躺在病床上通读二十四史，积累了丰富的资料，帮助梁思成写成了《中国建筑史》，这是中国人第一次写成的自己国家的建筑史。后来，梁思成常常对人说，他的文章的“眼睛”大半是林徽因“点”上去的。
　　在林徽因生命的最后几年里，夫妻二人几乎把全部的心血都花在古建筑的研究和保护上。他们想把北京城这“都市计划的无比杰作”，作为当时全世界仅存的完整古城保存下来，成为一个“活着的博物馆”留给后人。当北京市委领导决定大批拆掉大城墙和城门楼时，林徽因已经病得很重，她仍然拖着颤巍巍的身子与当时的市委领导辩论。建筑学家陈从周回忆：“她(指林徽因)指着吴晗的鼻子，大声谴责。虽然那时她肺病已重，喉音失声，然而在她的神情与气氛中，真是句句是深情。”她留下至今让人心头一痛的真知灼见：“你们拆的是具有八百年历史的真古董，将来，你们迟早会后悔，那个时候你们要盖的就是假古董！”　
　　林徽因在一个世纪的人心里，留下了美丽的爱情、友情、亲情，留下了独特的文学、学术、建筑，更留下了不让须眉的风骨。在一个所谓“美女作家”泛滥的年代里，林徽因的绝代芳华更让人产生悠悠的念想。　

 

 

 

不是每个西方人都被洗脑了

网上一个西方人给中国民众的留言，值得深思！

一个网名为Dan的西方人在ANTI-CNN网上写了以下留言，我觉得值得我们国内的媒体和舆论工作者深思：

Hello, I'm a Westerner too. Writing from Spain. I'm a fan of China, I love your beautiful country so much. I study Chinese and I'd like to live in China for some years. I comdemn these Tibetan TERRORISTS who are killing Han people. I hate terrorists, my country has suffered terrorism too. Blame those murderers!!! Big support!! I'm so sad because 99% of people in my homeland are totally brainwashed against China. If you love your country you have to do a big effort to show the truth to the whole mankind. Notice that in most Western TV channels all images about separatist violence are CENSORED, people don't know anything about this. The TV tell us that all killed demonstrators are Tibetans killed by the Chinese army. They sometimes say that mobs are doing bad things, but they pay so little attention to that fact that most people miss it. What everybody is keeping in mind is that Dalai rioters are peaceful people being oppressed by Chinese army. They also say that Tibet was invaded by Mao Zedong, as if it hadn't been a part of China ever before.They tell so many lies, you can't imagine. All the time! This is an international complot against China. In my opinion our governors are educating the masses to hate China, there isn't any other reason as far as I can imagine. They want all Westerns to believe that China is an evil empire, a giant version of North Korea. Deal with this, the West hates China. I'm sorry to say this, but that's the truth. Most people used to think that China is an amazing country with its old culture, etc. We are missing all that. Now we are being educated to think that China is only bad things. We NEVER, NEVER, NEVER watch good news from China. Only bad things, totally biased. Deal with it, and get used to this hate asap, because we can't stop it. I really think that the West is a threat for China, you better get used to that. The dream of the Western governments is seeing China totally destroyed, seeing Chinese economy ed so that your country stay poor forever and the West can go on eating all the resources in earth. The West doesn't want to share wealth with 1300M Chinese, that's why our governments want to  China. PS: Please write in English. Chinese people know the truth already, no need to explain. Now you have to tell the truth to the rest of mankind, but nobody will learn anything if you write in your language.

翻译：
您好，我是一个身在西班牙的西方人。我是一个中国迷，我非常爱你们美丽的国家，我学中文，我想在中国生活几年。我谴责这些杀害汉族人的藏族恐怖分子。我恨恐怖分子，我的国家已遭受过恐怖主义。谴责那些杀人犯！支持！我很悲伤，因为，在我的家乡百分之九十九的人在针对中国方面是完全被洗脑的。如果你爱你的国家，你们必须付出很大的努力去向全人类说明真相。请注意，人们不知道在大部分西方电视图像所存在的问题。电视告诉我们，杀害藏族示威者都是中国军队。他们有时说暴民正在做坏事，但他们极少关注这一事实，大多数人都被误导了。大家记住的是，达赖是和平的人，所谓暴徒是被中国军队压迫的反抗。他们还说，西藏是被毛泽东入侵的，在此之前，西藏并不是中国的一部分。你难以想象媒体中有这么多的谎言，无时不刻！这是一个国际上共同对付中国的一个阴谋。我认为，我们的政府在教育民众仇视中国，但我想象不出是什么原因。他们希望所有西方人认为中国是一个邪恶帝国，是一个巨人版的朝鲜。因此，西方国家不喜欢中国。我很抱歉这样说，但这就是事实。大多数人本来认为中国是一个有着悠久历史文化的了不起的国家，这一认知正逐渐消失。现在，我们正在被教导成中国只有坏事。我们从来，从来，从来没有看到过来自中国的好消息。只有坏的东西，完全失之偏颇。对此，只能逐渐习惯这种仇恨式教导，因为我们不能阻止它。我真的觉得西方对于中国来说是一个威胁，你们最好能习惯这一点。西方国家政府的梦想是看到中国被完全毁灭，看到中国经济崩溃，你们的国家永远保持贫困，这样西方就可以继续占有所有地球上的资源。西方国家并不希望与13亿中国人分享财富，这也就是为什么我们的政府要敌视中国。
PS ：请你们用英文书写。中国人民都知道真相了，没有必要解释。现在是要向其他人说明真相，但如果用你们自己的语言，没人会明白的。

 

这是他的又一段回复，可以让一些迷信西方自由民主的精英分子清醒一下：

I agree with everything you said. The problem is that Spanish people don't have a real opinion about anything. They just sit in front of the TV and listen what they guy says, that's how they "learn" about the world. If the guy says that China has killed 1 million Tibetans, they'll believe it all. It is the same in most Western countries, but here it looks to be much worse. Western Democracy kills people's brain. We are supposed to live in absolute "freedom". So... why should we doubt about our system? Isn't it perfect freedom?? We are supposed to live in absolute "freedom of speech". So... why should we doubt about what we read/watch on our "free media"? Etc, etc. Democracy has become a religion, and everybody must trust the democratic system, the tv and the newspapers. If you don't... you hate freedom, lol. That's why it is so easy to make the whole society to hate China. Fortunately, a very few of us love something out of the West too much, so that we can see that everything is a huge lie. In my case, I love China. Reading a lot about China and talking to Chinese friends made me seeing my Western world with another perspective. I realized tha the West isn't better than China. The only difference is that we are economiy developed. We are developed thanks to market economy, not thanks to democracy. Market economy makes countries rich, not democracy. After visiting China for study, I saw that people there has the same freedom as us. Maybe even more, as you can walk around at nights in China. In the West, you might be killed thanks to huge crime rates. Also, there is so few drugs in China. In the West, kills are offered all kind of drugs at school!! This is our Freedom!! In China you see so little violence on the TV. In the West, families (parents, kids, elders) enjoy their dinner while they watch terrible movies where people are raped, killed, etc with a lot of blood!! That's why Westerners love wars and violence so much, because we are educated to accept all violence as normal on the TV every day. After China becomes a developed country, many, many Westerners will move to China, you'll see... I'll move to China as soon as I finish my studies if I can. After some years, I'm starting to feel something special. China is not only as good as the Western democracy, it might be even better. China is growing fast, developing fast, you have so many problems, I know. China has many huge problems, yea. But almost every big problem in China is caused by undevelopment, right? When you become a rich country almost every serious problem will be solved, true?. Anyway, in almost every aspect China is far better than any "democratic" country with a similar level of development (India, Latin America,etc). I'm starting to believe that when China becomes a rich country it will be much better than the West in most aspects too. Listen to me, Chinese friends. Our "freedom" is a lie. In every Western country, most youngs take drugs and drink every weekend. Crime is huge. People don't have any hope in the future. We know we are rich thanks to what we stole to the rest of the world in the last century. We know that after 50 years we will be nothing because China and other countries are growing a lot. Our system doesn't work, it is a big lie, and nobody dares to speak and even to think about changing our beloved democracy. In Europe people don't have kids, we wil be a continent of elders by 2050. Many foreigners are coming from everywhere, otherwise our countries would collapse. There is a lot of racism growing everywhere. When muslims want to build a temple, there are violent riots. Some European countries (including mine) want to BAN muslim clothes so that muslum girls can't cover their hair. Is this freedom? In China nobody would ban this, never! Western freedom is a huge lie. Democracy is a huge lie. Just because we enclose a paper in a box once every 4 years we haven't more freedom than China. Please don't believe this, if China becomes a Western style democracy you'll kill China, you'll kill your country. Democracy looks like old Communism, when you read about it, it is wonderful, but in the real world it is shit. We don't have real freedom, we don't have anything, just propaganda. Just look at Taiwan province. In Taiwan they have Western democracy, now Taiwan is crazy, they have fights in the parliament like kids, they had a xenophobic president for years who banned immigrants from the Mainland and **ed the economy. And 3 million Taiwanese moved to the Mainland, which is poorer!!! Isn't this crazy??? People use to move to richer places, not reverse! That shows you what would happen if the whole China had Western democracy. Self destruction!!! I don't know how to explain the proportions of the Democracy myth. It is exactly like Communist Russia. It looks powerful from outside and inside, Russian people believed that their Communism was great too just until a few months before it collapsed. It is the same in the West. Everything is a big lie. And you know we are starting a huge economic crisis, while China keeps growing 10%! I don't know what will happen, I hope I can move to Shanghai soon. I'll tell you something about economic development. The West has a huge recent past about economic wealth, and no future. China is the opposite. This century is yours, not only because you are growing, but because we have no future. I only hope the Western governors dont try to sink China too so that the West doesn't sink alone.
翻译 ：
我同意你所说的每一句话。问题是西班牙人对任何事情都没有真正的看法。他们只是坐在电视前面听那个家伙说的东西，这就是我们“了解”这个世界的方式。那家伙说中国杀死了100万西藏人，他们也会完全相信。在西方其他国家这种情况只会更糟糕，西方的民主杀死人们的大脑。我们应该是生活在绝对的“自由”之中吧，那我们为什么要怀疑我们的体系呢？那难道不是最完美的“自由”吗？我们应该是生活在完全的“言论自由”中吧，那，我们为什么怀疑我们在“自由的媒体”中所看到和所了解到的呢？媒体在这已经变成了一种宗教，每个人都应该相信这种民主的体系，相信电视和报纸，如果你不的话。。。难道你痛恨自由吗？这就是为什么这么容易就可以让整个社会都仇恨中国。幸运的是我们之中的一小部分热爱西方世界以外的东西，所以我们可以看到所有这一切是一个巨大的谎言。例如我，我热爱中国。读了很多关于中国的事情并和很多中国朋友聊天以便我有另一个视角审视西方社会。我认为西方并不比中国更好。唯一的区别是我们的经济更加发达，我们发达要感谢市场经济，而不是民主体制。是市场经济而不是民主让国家变得富裕，作为学生来过中国之后，我发现中国和我们拥有同样的自由。在中国当你在晚上自由自在的散步的时候，你甚至会感觉更多。在西方你可能被谋杀要感谢这里极高的犯罪率，而且在中国几乎没有毒品，西方人们在学校里自由的提供各种各样的毒品。这就是我们的自由！！中国的电视上你几乎看不到什么暴力场面，在西方，一家人一边享受着他们的完餐边看着氦人的电影，在电影里有人被强奸，有人被杀，画面充斥着鲜血。这就是为什么西方人如此热爱战争和暴力的原因，因为我们已经学会在日常的电视画面中接受这些东西为平常事了。在中国变成一个发达国家以后，很多，很多的西方人会移民到中国去，你会看到的。。。只要我能，毕业以后我就会移民到中国去。几年以后，我开始感觉到一些特别的事情。中国不仅像西方的民主体系那样好，而且可能更好。中国成长的很快，发展的很快，我知道你们有很多的问题。中国有很多巨大的问题，确实。但是中国几乎所有最大的问题都是因为落后造成的。对吧？当你们变成一个富裕的国家以后几乎所有的问题都会得到解决。无论如何，中国几乎在所有方面都远远好于那些相似水平的发展中国家（如：印度，拉丁美洲）。我开始相信，当中国变成一个富国以后。将会在很多方面好过西方。听听我吧，中国朋友。我们的“自由”是一句谎言，再所有的西方国家，多数青少年在周末吸食毒品，酗酒。犯罪率惊人，人们对未来不抱有任何希望，我们富有，这要归功于上个世纪我们对世界其他地方的掠夺。我们知道50年以后我们将一无所有，因为中国和其他国家会成长很多。我们的民主将会不起作用，这是一个巨大的谎言，没有人敢于谈论或思考改变我们可爱的民主。在欧洲人们不要孩子，我们会一直衰老到2050年。移民从四面八方涌来，不然我们的国家就要崩溃。种族主义在各处蔓延，清真教徒键起一个庙宇，那就会发生骚乱。一些欧洲国家禁止清真女子遮住她们的头发，这就是自由吗？在中国，没人会禁止这些。永远也不会。

 

另一个西方人的回复：

原文 I am a westerner 你好！對不起，英文 I want to tell you all that not all Western people are ignorant. I am from the UK and I am appalled at the bias of the Western media. I expect it from FOX or Sky News but not from supposedly "impartial" news agencies like the BBC and CNN. ) [- O* N( F8 _, t Tibetans are murdering innocent Chinese people just because they live there, yet there are still pro-Tibet demonstrations in western cities. It seems that they are FOR murder? And then the Chinese police arrive and try to stop the riots, get rocks thrown at them, some badly injured or killed, and the Western media says it is a "brutal crackdown"?0 F0 ?& A" h1 j, |" ' E* E7 R- W me, what would happen if riots like this happened in the USA? Oh wait, it DID happen, the 1992 Los Angeles riots are one. AND the 1999 WTO riots in Seattle. And did the police come in riot gear and start shooting tear gas and rubber bullets? YES. And was this ed a brutal crackdown? NO. We have a word for them: hypocrites. And they moan about human rights. Yet even now the people who are native to the American continent - Native Americans - are a minority. Their culture has been destroyed and they were herded like sheep into reservations. The USA invaded Iraq because God told George Bush to get more oil, and now look, millions of INNOCENT Iraqi people have been killed. Also the British Empire had millions of slaves and "colonised" (invaded) countries. U( s2 T. S" C; c2 G5 l- a: u What's funny is that there are people waving around Tibetan flags in London but they don't even know the whole story. They are ignorant, they think what they are doing is right but of course they don't know the truth of some Tibetan's disgusting actions because of the bias in the media.7 P8 U7 U! I# ]4 [; e+ y. D So I hope that Chinese people don't think all Westerners are ignorant or arrogant. Some of us actually have a brain to think, and eyes to see what is really happening.


翻译：我是一名西方人你好！對不起。我想告诉你们并非所有西方人都是不知情的。我来自英国，我对西方媒体所持的偏见深感震惊。我对事件的了解来自于ＦＯＸ和ＳＫＹ的新闻，而不是明显持有偏见的ＣＮＮ和ＢＢＣ的新闻报道。藏独份子（注：不是指藏族人民　译者注），仅仅因为汉人住在西藏就对其进行谋杀，但是西方却依旧支持这种行为，难道他们竟然是在支持谋杀吗？当警察试图在那里平息这场骚乱时，藏独份子用石头攻击警察，一些警察严重受伤甚至死亡。但西方媒体却说这是残酷的“镇压”。告诉我如果这场骚乱发生在美国会怎么样？哦，等等，这种事确实发生过。１９９２年的洛杉矶骚乱就是一例。还有在１９９９年在西雅图举行ＷＴＯ时的骚乱。警察冲进骚乱的人群中发射催泪弹和橡胶子弹了吗？是的。但是这被叫做残酷的镇压了吗？没有。让我们给这些西方人一个称呼“伪君子”。他们成天呼吁“人权”，在美国有很多少数族裔，他们的文化已经被毁灭，他们如今像羊群一样卑微的活着；美国侵略伊拉克因为上帝告诉布什去弄更多的石油，现在看看，数百万无辜的伊拉克平民已经被杀害。还有英国，他们也有数百万奴隶和“被殖民”（被侵略）的国家。可笑的是，现在不知道事情全貌的人却在伦敦挥舞着西藏的“旗帜”。他们是无知的，他们认为他们所做是正确的，因为媒体偏见对他们掩盖了对事情的真相的了解。所以我希望你们（中国朋友），不要认为所有西方人都是傲慢无礼又无知的，我们也有会用脑子思考，用眼睛观察事实真相的人。